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One thing I've learned through 15 years of recovery is that the disease of alcoholism and addiction has touched almost every family in one form or another. I count myself as one of the lucky ones to have been given a chance to address this disease with the help and support of my family and friends. After 10 years of sobriety I relapsed at possibly the most inopportune time. The guilt and shame I felt over letting myself and my family down was indescribable. <div>I sought and received an age waiver at 42 years old to serve in the U.S. Navy. I dishonored that great privilege and all those who wear the uniform and for that I am deeply ashamed. But I also know that I can not allow one moment in time to define me. What I hope defines me is my love for my family. What I hope defines me is my desire to act in service of others. I know that this struggle is not unique to me alone. Millions of people from all walks of life and all around the world have faced this same affliction. I count myself among the blessed to have been given a second chance to build on my recovery.</div><div> I've known many people who have not been afforded that chance and have lost all they held dear. My heart aches for them. And my heart aches for those who have put their trust and faith in me, not only as father, husband, son and brother, but also as a friend and member of my community. </div><div><br></div>